Melanie Kirk
About Me
I have been providing therapy to couples and individuals for almost 11 years. My foundational training and experience began with RELATE Derbyshire, where I was fortunate to learn from exceptional teachers, supervisors, and colleagues. In 2019, I decided to establish my private practice, driven by a desire to offer clients greater autonomy, flexibility, and choice.
When the COVID-19 pandemic struck in 2020, I transitioned my practice online, a change that, at first, felt daunting. However, as I adapted, I came to appreciate the distinct advantages of online therapy, particularly in making my services accessible to clients who might otherwise face barriers to support. This experience prompted me to consider other barriers people might encounter, such as cost, availability, and partner reluctance, which inspired further reflection on how best to reach those in need.
I also noticed that many couples waited until moments of crisis before seeking support. I began to wonder how those who had never considered therapy may benefit from exploring their relationship earlier, deepening understanding before difficulties grow. Motivated by these observations, I started looking for additional ways to share knowledge and resources. I’m now expanding into online courses and downloadable materials designed to support couples at various stages of their relationships. My goal is to make therapeutic support more accessible, empowering individuals and couples to strengthen understanding, connection, and resilience both within and beyond the therapy room.
Qualifications and Registration
- MSC in Psychosexual Therapy (Distinction)
- BA Hons Degree in Counselling Solutions (First Class)
- Diploma in Relationship Therapy (Relate)
- Couple Therapy for Depression (IAPT Tavistock)
- Children’s Counselling 5-11yrs (Relate)
- Various CPD courses and workshops (a minimum of 30 hours per year)
Registrations
As a registered member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT), I uphold rigorous professional and ethical standards within the field of psychosexual and relationship therapy. COSRT membership requires adherence to strict codes of conduct and a commitment to continual professional development, ensuring that the quality of support provided remains at the highest level. You can be assured that all of my qualifications have been thoroughly verified by COSRT, offering you peace of mind and trust as we embark on our therapeutic work together.
Therapy Models
Utilised
Some of the methods I may draw upon include:
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Systemic Therapy
Explores the relationship patterns within families or groups, helping you understand how these connections influence your experiences.
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Psychodynamic Therapy
Focuses on how unconscious influences and past experiences shape current feelings and behaviours, bringing insight and understanding.
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CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy)
Helps you identify and change unhelpful thought patterns, offering practical strategies to manage challenges.
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Solution Focused Therapy
Centres on building solutions and future possibilities rather than dwelling on problems, empowering you to move forward.
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Psychoeducation
Provides information to help you better understand your challenges, offering knowledge as a tool for growth, choice and self-care.
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Narrative Therapy
Encourages you to re-examine and reframe your life story in empowering ways, highlighting strengths and resilience.
I am a sex-positive, kink-aware and ENM-friendly therapist.
Examples of Areas I Can Support You With.
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Self Guided Video Course
- 7 Core Modules
- Clearly Structured, Digestible Chapters
- 72 page Workbook
- 4 Hours of Video Content